1-1 Discipleship
The Luke Stilwell
Program
The 1-on-1 Discipleship Program is designed to walk alongside young adults (ages 18–25) to help you grow as a lifelong disciple of Jesus - friends and followers of Jesus being trained and empowered to love. Through personalized coaching and curated discipleship tracks, we create space for spiritual growth, helping and guiding you to become a devoted follower of Christ in every season of life.
Our Hope
We aim to see a generation of young adults deeply rooted in Christ—abiding in Him, empowered by the Holy Spirit, and transformed into His likeness. As you are encouraged and challenged, we believe you will grow more as a loving disciple, equipped to live out your calling in every season of life.
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The 1-on-1 Discipleship Program is designed to walk alongside young adults (ages 18–25) during one of the most formative seasons of life. Our mission is to guide you in becoming a lifelong disciple of Jesus—offering space to grow, be known, and be challenged in a way that aligns your life more closely with Him.
Through personalized coaching and curated discipleship tracks, you’ll explore new perspectives, deepen what you already know, and grow in love, character, and purpose. You’ll learn to abide in Christ, live by His example, and be renewed through the Holy Spirit.
Each mentee is paired with a trained coach—a trusted member of our church family—who will walk with you, pray with you, and help apply what you’re learning to your everyday life. More than just a guide, your coach is a fellow follower of Jesus who genuinely cares about your heart, your growth, and your story.
This program is uniquely designed for young adults and offers a relational, Christ-centered approach to discipleship, tailored to your current season of life. It’s not just about gaining knowledge—it’s about transformation.
You’ll embark on a 4-month journey: one month in a foundational track, followed by three months in a track of your choosing. Topics include relationships, career, and spiritual growth. You’ll meet with your coach twice a month and engage with readings and reflections to help deepen your relationship with Jesus.
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In the 1-on-1 Discipleship Program, you’ll embark on a personalized 4-month journey to grow as a disciple of Jesus. You’ll begin with a 1-month foundational track: "Laying the Foundation for My Discipleship," followed by 3 months in a track that suits your season, such as:
Learning to Become a Follower of Jesus
Learning to Date as a Follower of Jesus
Navigating Your Career as a Follower of Jesus
Navigating Your Pre-Engagement Season (for couples)
Throughout, you’ll meet with your coach at least twice a month to discuss progress, reflect on the material, and pray together. You’ll also complete readings and assignments to deepen your relationship with Jesus and encourage growth.
This program is deeply relational and personalized, designed to guide you in practical ways to live out your faith during this important season of life.
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The 1-on-1 Discipleship Program is for young adults (ages 18–25) who are eager to grow in their relationship with Jesus. It’s a space designed to help you deepen your faith, receive personal coaching, and learn how to live out your relationship with Christ in your everyday life.
We understand that everyone’s journey looks different, and some seasons of life may require more care than others. If you're walking through deep emotional pain, trauma, or mental health challenges like anxiety or depression, this may not be the best first step for you. While 1-on-1 Discipleship offers spiritual growth, encouragement, and guidance, it is not intended to replace counseling or pastoral care.
However, we want to emphasize that you don’t have to choose between discipleship and healing.
If you’re in a season where you need healing, you are welcome to engage in 1-on-1 Discipleship alongside counseling or Care. We’re here to walk with you through both, but it’s important to note that 1-on-1 Discipleship is not a substitute for professional or pastoral care.We encourage you to honestly reflect:
Am I in a season where I need healing, or am I ready to focus on spiritual growth?
If you're uncertain, we’re here to help you discern the best next step. A member of our staff would be honored to meet with you and guide you in making that decision. We also have a trusted Care Team and resources specifically designed to support you through seasons of healing.What 1-on-1 Discipleship is:
A space for spiritual growth and intentional coaching
A place to practice following Jesus in your current season of life
What 1-on-1 Discipleship is not:
A substitute for counseling or therapy
A replacement for professional or pastoral care
No matter where you are in your journey, we believe God is at work in your life, and we are here to help you take the next faithful step
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We’re excited to walk with you on this journey!
To get started, please fill out the application. Your honest responses will help us understand where you’re at in your walk with Jesus and ensure this program fits your season of life. If you don’t meet every requirement, we’ll guide you through any necessary steps to prepare.
After submitting your application, we’ll send you the first unit’s material, which must be completed before your first meeting. In about three weeks, we’ll pair you with a coach who fits your goals and current season.
By joining, you're committing to a 4-month journey: 1 month in a foundational track and 3 months in a track of your choice. You’ll meet with your coach twice a month and engage with readings and reflections to grow in your faith. After 4 months, you can choose a new track to continue your growth.
If you have questions, reach out to lexi.riehl@portcitychurch.org. If you’re ready to apply click the link down below!
About 1-1 Discipleship
1-1 Discipleship Tracks:
Learning to become a Follower of Jesus.
Why This Track Exists
This track is designed to help you move from simply believing in Jesus to actively following Him. Through scripture, guided reading, and honest conversations, you’ll explore what it really means to live as one of His disciples.
What We Hope Happens
Our hope is that you’re challenged, encouraged, and deeply formed—both by the book we’re reading and the scriptures you engage with. We want you to start taking real, tangible steps in your walk with Jesus. This isn’t about just gaining knowledge—it’s about living it out. As you process with your Coach, our prayer is that you grow closer to Jesus and learn to live like Him in your everyday life.
What’s Expected
Be All In.
Be Real.
Be Intentional.
What is the Curriculum?
Scripture & guided reading of Practicing the Way by John Mark Comer.
How Long Is It?
3 Months / 9 Weeks (about 6 meetings)
Is this track required?
No it’s optional.
Learning to Date as a Follower of Jesus
Why This Track Exists
Dating isn’t directly addressed in the Bible, but Scripture is full of wisdom about relationships. As you learn to date as a follower of Jesus, our goal is to encourage and support you in walking in the way of Jesus. Through this journey, we hope you’ll gain clarity and confidence in how to approach modern dating with a biblical perspective.
What We Hope Happens
We hope this space equips you with practical tools for dating while deepening your discipleship to Jesus. As you process and grow, we pray you’ll feel supported and empowered to pursue relationships with intentionality and faith.
What’s Expected
Be All In.
Be Real.
Be Intentional.
What is the Curriculum?
Scripture & guided reading of Single, Dating, Engaged, Married by Ben Stuart.
How Long Is It?
3 Months / 9 Weeks (about 6 meetings)
Is this track required?
No it’s optional.
Navigating your Career as a follower of Jesus.
Why This Track Exists
Whether you're almost graduating college, in your post grad area, went straight into the working force, or are currently trying to land on where you want to work. The purpose of this track is to help you determine and dream up what you want, why you want it, and what you're going to do about it!
What We Hope Happens
Our hope is that as you go through this curriculum and process the content with your coach that you will be deeply encouraged as you approach your next steps as a follower of Jesus. We hope that your overall discipleship to Jesus will increase as you navigate career choices.
What’s Expected
Be All In.
Be Real.
Be Intentional.
What is the Curriculum?
Scripture & guided reading of Dream Big by Bob Goff or Garden City by John Mark Comer.
How Long Is It?
3 Months / 9 Weeks (about 6 meetings)
Is this track required?
No it’s optional.
Laying the Foundation for my Discipleship.
Why This Track Exists
This first month is all about building the foundation for your discipleship journey. It’s also a time for you and your Coach to get to know each other, start building trust, and set the tone for what’s ahead. Before going further in your discipleship journey, we want to make sure you’re rooted and ready.
What We Hope Happens
We hope you walk away from this track with a clearer picture of where you are in your walk with Jesus—and a sense of what growth could look like from here. This is about taking time to slow down, reflect, and start forming some healthy spiritual rhythms that can stick.
What’s Expected
Be All In: You and your Coach are committing to show up fully for this track—both in time and heart.
Be Real: This is a space to be honest about where you're at and where you want to go.
Be Intentional: The goal isn’t perfection. It’s progress. Be open, be curious, and come prepared.
What is the Curriculum?
Scripture & Guided Assessments & Self Evaluations.
How Long Is It?
1 Month / 4 Weeks (about 2 meetings)
Is this track required?
Yes. Everyone in the program starts with this track.
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The Luke Stilwell 1-on-1 Discipleship Program is a Christ-centered initiative designed to walk alongside young adults (ages 18–25), helping them grow into mature, lifelong disciples of Jesus. This journey happens through intentional relationships—friends and followers of Jesus training and empowering others to love well.
As a Coach, you’ll play a vital role in creating space for spiritual growth by offering personalized guidance, prayerful support, and wisdom rooted in Scripture. Each mentee follows a curated discipleship track, and your consistent presence can help shape their walk with Jesus in lasting ways.
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Be Actively Abiding in a Relationship with Jesus – Coaches should be committed disciples of Jesus, actively cultivating a relationship with Him.
Ongoing Training & Supported Reading – Coaches are required to attend at least two training sessions prior to and during their commitment, with a total of three sessions expected annually. Additionally, Coaches will engage in guided reading to support their personal and spiritual development.
Discipleship Track Commitment – Coaches commit to completing at least one four-month discipleship track, with the option to continue beyond that. Each track is designed to include at least two meetings per month with your mentee, totaling approximately 6-8 sessions.
Upholding Overflow Leader Expectations – Coaches are asked to uphold the expectations of Overflow throughout the duration of their time serving. (more details on application)
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Coach Application, Onboarding, & Background Check
Application Review
Intentional Pairing Process
Four-Month Discipleship Track
Ongoing Trainings (required to attend 2/3)
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We are committed to equipping and supporting you in your coaching role:
Discipleship Booklet
A complete guide including curriculum, reflective questions, and practical tools to help you walk through your mentee’s chosen track.Ongoing Resources
Access to discipleship materials, recommended readings, and staff support throughout your time.Monthly Check-ins
Quick feedback forms help our team stay connected and ensure you’re supported in meaningful ways.
